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Archive for January, 2009
新年献词
一年有春夏秋冬四季节,不同的季节有着不同的生活放式,生活习惯,当然也少不了不同的生活阅历。
虽然在我国常年都是炎热多雨,但这并不代表我们大马公民一年的生活都是单调及平淡无奇。
迈入了金牛年,大街小巷都听得到“‘牛’转‘钱’坤”;当然,没有人会为此而觉得奇怪,回顾刚刚进入史记的鼠年,仿佛不止马来西亚国内发生了许许多多的不如意事及突发事件,就连世界各个角落都有着不同角度的悲剧。
美国次贷及地产泡沫的爆破掀开了千禧年的首个金融风暴,这一次的金融海啸更不止局限在美国当地而已,基于美国扮演的角色,这一个危机很快的就像病毒般的蔓延至其他国家,可以说是无一幸免。这一个危机导致许多巨人企业纷纷倒闭,在近几年来被誉为将猛涨的房屋价钱更是走向另一个方向的趋势,投资者的资金被锁在房屋;裁员风暴也因此而卷起,因美国的国内市场庞大无比,裁员风暴直接导致消化能力剧烈衰退,那么这现象就导致制造业面对了前所未有的挑战,市场消失了,业者也得下降生产,利润变成微利,业者也得裁员,这就变成了一个连锁反应,蔓延至亚洲的国家,如中国,印度等近几年刚刚崛起的经济体系的前景也受到了威胁。我们因此而步入了‘现金等于权威(Cash Is King)’的年代。人们把钱留在身边,消费前都会更加地考虑了,所以各国政府及中央银行几乎每天都在寻找对策,这造就了财富雄厚的国家不断的注入资金进市场企图刺激经济成长,中央银行更是不断的调低利率,这年代的贷款变成了更加地容易,而且也因为利息的下调而变成所谓的‘ Cheap Money’;矛盾点却是,因为借贷利息的下降,银行的利润也下滑,所以这引致了银行的定期利息也跟着下降(不然银行赚什么呢?)
美国的金融风暴成为了焦点,同时美国的政治局势也成为了热门话题。刚刚在几天前宣誓就任的第四十四位美国总统与排在他之前的领导者不同的地方出了需要处理好美国的问题以便让这世界第一大国家重新回到龙头位置外,他更是象征着思维大改革的领导人-第一位非白皮肤的总统来领导美国,相信在上个世纪,或几十年前,甚至是几年前都没有人会去想象,但是今天它的却是发生了啊!带着‘改变及希望’的口号,奥巴马总统需要做出一项伟大的改革,万事艰辛,始于第一步;如果你觉得你面对的挑战是很困难而不敢前进,朋友,你认为他的使命就微小容易吗?
在我们即将踏入金牛年的时候,战乱又在侵袭人类的国土了!以色列所展开的恶意攻势,夺取了许多小孩的未来,血腥的战争让我们明白了武力及暴力绝对不会是解决问题的好方案。为世界的未来尽一份绵力,我们因该一起推动和平的口号!
除了人为的灾祸,中国四川的天灾及后来在我国频频发生的土崩事件更是让我们觉得生命是非常的脆弱的。这一些天灾让‘环保及保卫地球’的口号与思想剧升,‘绿化’及节省能源已经成为了人们关注的重要事件之一了,希望我们的环境与我们的发展是有一个平衡点的,第一步,因该是由每一个公民开始主动的控制自己的行为,除了不要随意丢垃圾,看到垃圾拾起来肯定是一个重要的第一步,爱护你的家,就得确保地球也是先受爱护。
进入人人口中的‘新的一年,新的希望’了,但是这类型的话语,有哪一年是没有人说的呢?为什么大部分的人都无法达到该年的目标或梦想而是习惯了希望新的一年会带来新的开始,而到最后又在重复的做出同样的‘希望’的呢?
我说,那是因为大部分的人都只是在想,而没有行动来支持所想的。就算有一部分人是由拿出行动来支配思想,但是却是少了不可或缺的坚持。
祝愿大家,在今天开始,对任何目标都拥有那一刻坚持的心,以便可以读过一个美满又充实的2009年!
最后,
新年快乐,祝大家万事如意!
梁浩詺 字
备注:本人名字已改,由梁健铭,改至梁浩詺。
Change yourself , not Change the world
There was a young and enthusiastic man who was in his early twenty. One marvellous day, this young man told himself with a firm voice that he wanted to change the whole world, to dimisnish poverty, to create eternal happiness, to wipe away war for goods, and etc.
In order to change the world, he decided that he should travel around the world to instill good values into people around the wolrd, so on he went.
After a long yet tiring journey around the globe which took him around 10 years, he still could not see the desired outcome. War still raging, poverty and robbery were still on the rise, the picture was similar to that of 10 years ago.
“i could not have change the world by my own strength’. He told himself, immersed in disappoinment.
Suddenly, he found hope again. “wait, but i maybe can change my country”
So on he set out again, this time, with the same objective, he aimed to change the situation in his country.
‘Again, a good 10 years had past and everything was more or less the same. This time, he said to himself that even his country, he could not have hold the power to change the situation on his own. Despair, he lost his confident.
But again, he found his spirit when he began to think that maybe he could change the situation starting from his village. So he returned to his native village with the objective held firmly in his mind. Again, a good 10 years had past and he realized that all his efforts and hardwork had not produced any significant changes.
This time, he was again filled with massive disappoinment, engulged by darkness, lost his faith with life. He thought of leaving this world silently by putting a knife on his Aorta area. Before he gathered enough courages to do that, he had his enlightenment that changed the rest of his life.
“i have dedicated my whole life, 10 years i want to change the world, 10 years i want to change my country, for 10 years of invaluable times i wanted to change my village, yet after this 30 years, i have changed nothing. But what if, i started from today, by changing my own self?” His self-dialouge was quite heavy and he engaged quite long with his sub-conscious mind on this issue.
“Yeah, if i start by changing myself, maybe everything will appear in a new light”
So there he started off again. He began to change his perspective and value in life, to see things differently, to feel things and people around him from different angle, and from now on, everything began to make sense, to become great for him, he found his purpose in life.
This is a story which intended to teach the reader, whatever that we get involved with, we may find it easy to acknowledge every obstacles and circumstances to the mistakes of other parties, we find that blaming other parties for the failure of some efforts is the solution or factor to the failure, then we begin to think that if that someone had change, or that someone did not do this did not do that, things would then be so much different. But we seldom look at ourselves and reassess ourselves, it was us who needed the attention when we realized that something gotta change.
Einstein put in a very make-sense way. ” the problem that we are facing cannot be solved at the same level of thinking when we create the problem”. If we want to find a solution to a problem, we have to lift our mental quality to a higher level, to look at the problem from a higher level, but not at the same level that we create the problem to burden our mind. Imagination, is what we need best in the very end.
呐喊的青春,燃烧的岁月
我飞上天空就能驾驭彩虹,
太阳和月亮伴随我的里程;
我知道梦想一直与我并肩,
耀眼的星光照亮我的明天。
希望的路上会有曲折坦途,
自由的天空就能放心去飞;
不要太在意那些是非与对,
就让我尽情翱翔梦的天空!
心中的梦想照亮我的未来
尽情的放飞吧!
梦的天空!
就让我努力冲吧!冲向蓝天。。。
就让我自由飞吧!飞得更远。。。
未知的明天,我把握手中!
就让这激情燃烧每一分钟~
就让我努力冲吧!冲向蓝天。。。
就让我自由飞吧!飞得更远。。。
希望在哪里? 它在我手中!
就让这青春燃烧我的明天~
希望与梦想
激情的方飞吧!
梦的天空~
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我和其他人一样,
都是那么的平凡,
我没有什么特别优异的条件,
也没有任何特别不可多得的劣质;
我只能够用内心那把追求卓越的火团来燃烧我的动力,
我不知道前面的路会有多么的曲折或顺畅,
我只是知道,
我始终会到达我今天所看到的终点,
如果差别是一个绝对,
那么我会让它成为时机的差别,
而不是向困难妥协而让更换终点的差别。
我不需要对任何人有任何的承诺,
因为只有当我先兑现自己给自己的承诺后,
我才有这个资格
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you Fix it, or let it Fix you
In the light of the new year, Mix FM has taken the role of being the initiator to instill something to its mix breakfast show by started the ‘Fixer’ section.
Fixer is a programe aimed to help its audiences ‘FIX” whatever problems people encounter in daily life, it could be family matters, relationship issues, financial challange, or any other form of pyschological disorder that one may experience.
An expert namely Freddie the Fixer is the person behind this that fix people problem, Freddie the Fixer has a highly celebrated profile with his successes in helping people from all walks of life to face and get over their problems. Now that mix Fm has had Freddie The Fixer in this program, problems are now more likely to be corrected and life will then be improved. Let me further elaborate more on Freddie the Fixer,
Freddie is a relationship expert who understands that there are many reasons to why relationships are so vulnerable today. With his Mind Match Conditioning (MMC) principle, Freddie is able to unlock the secret to make a relationship work. MMC is simply a conditioning process that allows ones mind to conceive the meaning of an event and it will eventually transpire into daily physical actions. To put it a simpler way, when you know how to convince your mind, you can get it to believe and do anything, even when things are not real. Find out how this technique is used to make you a happier person.
All people faces challenges and problems in life.
Life itself is the best thing that ever occur in this universe because without life we all will be nothing more compare to the non-living.
After life, we may have many forms of argument to decide what is the best thing that comes after life itself, some may say happiness, some may opt to stick to the wealth, or rather some will say the quality of life, or being love, or even some may think that to have health is vitally great to everyone.
I think, the second thing that is so great after life itself should be, the freedom to choose. The freedom to choose how we will react to whatever circumstances, the freedom to choose what we want to do, what kind of life we want to lead, what kind of person or personality we want ourselves to have, this is the freedom to choose.
Not many people realized that we all have this freedom to choose and not many people know that we all have been given this freedom from the very day since we first breathed air oxygen.
Perhaps that is why, we often hear people making complains how they were being made victims to someone or some events, that they have no choices but to do this and do tat, to act accordingly to someone else’s will or demand, these all may be too simple and common and could not have been more common for us to hear in our daily life.
People should be made to aware that whatever the obstacles and circumstances it will be likely to face us or hamper on our head, we neverthelss hold the very utmost decision to decide how we will face it and how we will react toward someone, toward some incidents.
The very first step to cure all forms of dilemma, ladies and gentlemen, would be that we realize we all have the freedom to choose~
The good news is, it is never too late to realize about this, and to those people who are determined to fix the knot in their heart or whatever problems in their life, it starts from now, it starts from the very moment you have the determination to fix it, and if you think you do not know how, you may need Freddie the Fixer to come to your aid.
For more info, click on to www.mix.fm
I am being killed, each day once
“If you have given your Present to the pass, do you need to give away your future to it too?”
I read this phrase from a book last night.
It hit home in an inarguable fashion.
It brought a massive thought inducing pattern on me.
It pushed away the me who dwell in the past and casted away the shadow.
It makes perfect sense if someone tell me we are at where we now at because we have decided to bring ourselves here in the past, because every decision we make at the present moment inexplicitly decide what will come toward us in near future, so, our present form is actually the product of our past decision, this make me think that it is indeed true to say we have given away our present to the past.
Then if that person continue to ask me, is there a need to give away our future to our past? This time there’s nothing for me to agree to, but it is very mind provoking. Is there a need?
No, there is no such a need. I lead my own way.