Archive for October, 2008

铭人冥话

每个人的心里都有一个‘服’字;

有些人看见我,他的‘服’是心服的‘服’;

有些人看见我,他的‘服’是口服的‘服’;

不关你的‘服’是哪一个‘服’,当我看见这里的每一位,大家的时候,我只有一个‘服’,是舒服的‘服’。

                                                         梁健铭 语于 国大中秋二十八 慰劳宴 exco 最后一次一起坐在地上分享

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今天的我跟明天的我只有一个差别,

今天的我为明天的我做了一个决定,

‘进步’,还是’原地踏步‘的决定。

                                                                     梁健铭 于 联邦大道 驾驶中

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理由再烂都不要紧,最重要是它是理由,不是借口。

                                                                       梁健铭   语于  与刘淑沄其中一对话

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太阳下山明天还是一样爬上来。

下山的太阳跟爬上来的太阳,都还是太阳,

做自己!

                                                                          梁健铭 on PT28 慰劳宴 刘淑沄写在吴宓恒衣上的留言

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你看到的未必是我看到的;

我看见的又未必是你看得见的;

所以你才是你,我还是我;

我们都是独一无二的!

                                                                                 梁健铭 字于 PT 28 慰劳宴 留言在廖美仪的纸上

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莲池内的乌龟

yesterday… seems so far away…

不小心走到天后宫去,什么都没有想到,只是想到几个人。

陈建宾,慧铃,YeeVoon。 看着那个有很多乌龟的池就想到大概两年前我们跑到这个地方来那时。还有那一条神农草的走径。我们在这些地方拍过照留过念。那一个时候,因为公事我们去了天后宫,都已经忘记了为什么我会随行了,但是还记得在那边做过什么,找那个负责人谈借展览板一事,后来走去了一个好像马槽的地方,越过了一段路,看见很多桌子,很多块板,也有很多灯笼在那边。

如今真的是完全感受到桃花依旧,人面全非的意思。一切还是一样,莲池里的乌龟还是那么多到眼花缭乱,但是就是很少有机会看到身边的人了,就算看得见的,有些也真的是人面全非了。人生,坎;人生,堪;但是人生,赞!

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Tribute To RVN

The day you first came in, you brightened up my life with the new light in the dark;
The day you left, my world was left shattered up in pieces,
When i see you smile, i could also see a smile in me;
When i see you down, i could feel the sorrow for you too…

I’m all but glad that you’re still doing fine, given that you were just another person….

….who have gone through career threatening injury at young age and had to struggle to get back to his game after some 15 months out without a game, and even more difficult for him is that he had to switch his environment from his native soil to the nation who is known to play strong and physical football with quick pace, in the English Premier League, this man must had tremendous courages and confidence to back him up while he started to regain his reputation as the most feared goal-scoring machine back then in year 2001.

But the name of this person has suggested strong enough that he feared nothing, perhaps injury that would asked him to sit out from the pitch again. He showed wonderful beliefs and persistance on climbing his way back to the position he was once in, he went on to record his impressive scoring triumph, he went on to win trophies with his team, he went on to cast shadows on defenders, he went on to haunt many great teams and many top centrebacks in the game, he went on to achieve big things for himself and his team, despite he had met with many challenges and loads of pressures tailing him mercilessly.

This is the man to reckon with, this is the man who has demonstrated to everyone on earth that wherever we fall, we could get back on our feet and remain on the spot that we have fallen at, and then march on. This is the man who’d set the heart of many Man United fan wild, this is the man who often provoked the terminology Rude Awakening, this is the man who’s created the Rude Awakening, for this man is Ruud Van Nistelrooy!

After the career threatening injury, he fight back to become the indispensable player to his new team Man United, and he went on for his tremendous goal scoring spree back then, even recorded impressive 8 games in the row run, his statistics and records speak for him on how marvellous this guy has been, but the best part on this Ruud guy is not the numbers, not the figures, but his character.

After he missed the penalty kick against Arsenal with the loud crack on the cross bar, he was confronted by a gang of ruthless Arsenal players, on the pitch led by the evergreen Martin Keown and Ray Parlour, hassled by the likes of Laurent, but look at the devil, he acted calm, cool, indifferent to all those provocations trashed on him by the gunners. He may have missed the penalty, but he regained his dignity and got the applause from viewer worldwide on his character. The gunners thought they had brought him down to the earth, they thought Ruud had fallen hard and would never stand up again. They thought Ruud’s suffered a huge plunge in confidence and gone were the days of him scoring goals.

It didnt end just there.  They were wrong. Very wrong.

A year later, same pulsative match, similar intensity and tensions, same teams, Man United and Arsenal, same scenarios, a penalty given to the Red Devils, taker is still Ruud Van Nistelrooy, Keeper is still Jens Lehmann, the same focus from the ruthless Arsenal Players were thrown on Ruud, but look, this time, He bounced back, he scored, calmly slotted the ball to the right hand side and sent the keeper to his wrong way(he usually strucked the ball to the left hand side sky high but this time his intelligent made him the winner), he run to the fans, shattered to the ground, shouting out aloud, as if the pressure and ghost that been haunting him for a year had finally been defeated and released, fans felt his joy, fans felt how difficult it’d been for him for the past year, but we were all feeling great for him at that moment, some even shed tears together with him, like me! his scream, his passions, his reliefs, i could still recall the very vivid moment.

Ruud’s heroic doesnt stop here. After going through a dip in form, he was discarded by the red devils to Real Madrid. Many pundits thought Ruud had faded away and would play second fiddle role at Real, but He against proved the world wrong by going on to become a regular starter for the team who’d Raul, Robinho, Ronaldo, and successfully break his way into the pecking order, well thats not all, his old habit of scoring goal is still very much the same, he went on to score more breath taking goals, the one against valencia that cracked everyone’s heart, the one he scored from a position of ‘no angle’ etc, and even stood a strong fight to win the top scorer award in his first La Liga season.

His story on the pitch has spoken out that no matter how hard life hit us, with a stern heart, strong belief and determination, we would certainly find our way back into where it hit us hard. Today, is the Ruud Redemption Day, a day to pay tribute for this wonderful beast in the box, Ruud Van Nistelrooy, you ‘re the man!

 

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Sleepiness Vs Struggle

Feel so sorry that you’d to end your night with a sleep taking together frustrations and feelings of remorse with you. But i didnt know how to help you than to tell you i will be at your back, be the first one to grab you up should you stumble and fall, to be the one to pass you water should you feel thirsty.

Perhaps if you face with this circumstance the next time, having wanting to sleep, but you’re occupied with frustrations and these heavy feelings plus pressures, but you know, if we want to sleep like a baby, if we were to earn a good rest for ourselves after such a long day, we really need to throw all those out from our system. But the harsh actuality is, we cant dump those out like garbages, it resides in our mind.

I’d like to try a way. Perhaps we could sit down with a piece of paper, write all the negative thought that bothering us on the paper. after writing it, we dun look at it anymore, we only look at it after we have slept enough. The rational for us to write it out is to dumb these things outside from us, and to deal with it after our sleep. So, we clear it out from us, at least temporary.

However, the funny side of this act is tat, i think when we are awake, perhaps part of the written lines have now become something we’d just laugh at and say” why bother” already.

 

GoodNight to you now.

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Mistakes

Everyone of us would not hesitate to admit that we at least have had one mistake linked to our past experiences thus far into our life.

Admitting the mistake is not enough, and what else, it is not the essence at all, if we only admitting it but did not acknowledge it. The proactive approach to a mistake is to acknowledge it instantly, correct and learn from it, not just admitting it, and then let it haunt us for the rest of our lifetime or untill we’ve forgotten that mistake.

Success, is on the far side of failure.
If we could not acknowledge a mistake, not to correct it and learn from it, then this is a mistake of a different order. This ignorant display toward mistake usually puts a person on a self-deceiving, self-justifying path, often involving rationalization( rational lies) to self, and also people around. So this second mistake would usually cause a far deeper injury to self, even would eat away one’s pride if this self-deceiving act has continued for a prolonged time, that is when a person changed.

It is not what others do or even our own mistakes that hurt us the most; it is our response to those circumstances that determine the degree of hurt we feel. Lets think of it this way, chasing after the poisonous snake that bites us will only drive the venom through our entire system, hence bring about our own demise faster, right? Shouldnt we take measures immediately to get the poison out instead of chasing after the snake?
This clearly demonstrate that our response to any mistake affects the quality of the next movement. It is therefore important to immediately admit and correct our mistakes, so that they have no power over that next moment.

We all have the freedom to choose, our response to circumstances is thoroughly up to us to choose, but not for the circumstances to choose for us. For we are the one who live through our life, and we are in control, not under control.

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A n Z

Alphabet A and Z.

One symbolize a start. while its counterpart signifies the end.

When a kid starting to learn from A to Z, the kid might not have the faintest idea if A and Z would come next-to each other forever. I nvr tot of this either. until jus moments ago i came to realize they are actually so close together, just right next to each other. A is next to Z and Z also is next to Z, and this has been for so lengthy time. And it is worthy to note that they are not next to each other because they are strung into a circle.

Look, on our keyboard, A and Z is really next-to each other since the very first day!
So close yet so far,
when you think it is so far, it is actually so close;
when it looks as if it’s so close, it is actually still so far;
maybe it is down to how we look at things at the end of the day.

Put it in a text book, u will never agree next to A would be Z but u emphasize with perfect vigorous confidence tat it would always be B.

put it on the keyboard, you will never agree you want to have a B next to A, but Z.  Because this is the way we were conditioned to see, to know from the very first day.

Pre-condition of our mind is so influential that it actually affected how we view the world, how we value other ppl so tremendously, albeit we didn know of it only. Many time when we make comment on other ppl wrong doing, behaviours, it may not be due to them committing mistakes, behaving in a wrong way or weird way, it maybe rooted to the way we have in our belief system only. They might be doing something best for themselves when we thinking that those are mistakes, they might behaving like what they’re conditioned to believe from childhood time when we labelled it as weird or out of the world.

People should learn to let go of our pre-conceived ideas on other people, on the world, if we want to view everything in the new light and see the world a new place. Everything is just as wonderful as it is, it is down to how we view things and how we see things in the end.

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MySecret to Happiness

I believe that no one is stranger to doing this since the very first day of coming to this beautiful world,

And i also believe everyone is familiar to this feeling since the day we acquire emotion.

So what is that that people get so used to doing it day in day out, it is, smiling.
and what is it the feeling people so familiar with in our daily lives, namely, sadness.

Have you ever given this a try?
when you are feeling sad, when your mood experience a dip, when you lose ur hapiness, give urself a huge smile, or just a simple smile would do, and try to ask urself, are you still feeling sad, if your mood is still at the trough? even when you are in neutral state of mood, Smile, and feel it for yourself, that it is IMpossible for us to smile and feel sad simultaneously, whenever we smile, all sorts of troubles seem to be put back our head instantly.

So if you’ve discovered what wonders a smile can do to us, the next time u feel down, smile~

 

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Your Belief, against Your Faith

I havent found things great for sometimes already, albeit still not as bad as an egg with samonella, but I have never liked it, and I’d never have liked it. Was it you or was it your you-know-who that brought above these ‘fluctuations’,ya fluctuations indeed because things havent been consistent now, I think it needs no answer to make one understand.

 

I felt for you. When you were down and upset, I would felt no different from what you felt. I do not know whether your defiance is a good thing or not. It is certainly good that you have the faith in keeping your belief, it will always be a thing too great if somebody has confidence in themselves, albeit we wouldn’t know what they believe in are gonna bring them good thing or bad thing. It process of reaching the truth that you are seeking may pain you at times, and after enduring those painful times the fruits may come sweet, I cant deny you this. But hey, we can only hope as we do not know what the future has installed for us.

 

You may think that its worthwhile to sacrifice anything in the course of chasing your dream, in this case, your belief. Alas! Although I have my words to say to you but you will never hear me no matter how I tried, but, I just want you to know that I will always standing at your back, when u need supports or encouragement, you can have it from me.

 

I know you are stubborn and you are in denial.

 

You certainly are holding strong to your belief.

 

 

 

Do not fall into despair, your feet in the quarter final, play the game well.

Oh myy England, I’ve no idea why you’re not performing well in in the past.

it just didn’t seem to ‘click’, but, I will still be supporting you.

 

 

P.S  ‘you know who’ is—- England HeadCoach who failed to lead the team to glory

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It’s been quite sometime…

since the day i started falling on you, it must have been ages ago because i really cannot recall when was the exact date already, all i know is, it was really like a decade ago when that happened.

     The passion i have for you, has never changed in this lengthy period of time, i am still one of your superb and loyal admirer.My life is all about you. My everyday has been bright and great, just because of you. I have a friend asking me why did i fall for you, you know what, i couldnt give an exact answer to the question, strange…maybe, love means love, this is one of the finest reason already. i feel happy for your successes, and if you faced with tough times, i’d feel worried for you, you have got me bounded to you for so long and i am sure this will be the same for years to come.

      Since that very day, i have been no stranger to being awake deep and late in the night, just because i wanted to spend my precious time with you, to accompany you through the lonely night, you bring me joys and thrilling moments, eventhough you’d never hear me talking to you, but nothing could stopped me from getting the messages you were transmitting to me via your very special and thrilling way. Thanks for all those tiredless efforts of yours, fatigue has never been a word in your dictionary. There were times you brought me disappointments but i have never regretted for staying awake all night long for you during those wednesdays and tuesdays midnight…

      For all these time since i have known you, i cannot muster the strength in me to tell you that you havent changed, because you really have changed a lot. you were like that in those days, and now, you are, ofcos still bearing the same name of yours, albeit with different features and personalities. One thing that is so obvious that one can tell without seeing it is, you have changed and you are really blinded. i have been hoping that one day you will rediscover your path and again being your unique ownself.

       I will always be watching you. my heart will always stay with you. you have my love, forever love…

       if you do not have the faintest idea of who you are, i will remind you of your identity… you are

 

        Manchester United Football Club, the RED DEVIL

 

      

                                               i LOVE Manchester United!!

 

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The Voice WithIn

You may be stabbed from the back,

when you least expected it;

You may be made to feel bad,

when you are feeling good;

You may have tonnes of pressures on your shoulder,

when you thought you’ve unloaded some of the burdens;

Your colleagues may complain about you,

when your work’s telling beautiful thing about you;

Your friends may be talking loudly,

when your friends were suppose to be thinking intensively;

I may be told that i am walking on the wrong track,

when i think i am trotting on the correct lane;

I may have a stranger denying my claims,

when i actually treat this stranger so dear a friend of mine;

I may have earned recognition from others,

when i received critics from my teamates;

I may have given all my best efforts,

when i see my compatriots playing conservative games;

I may have had the best thing on earth(which i thought i really had),

when i’m convincingly being made to believe in the otherwise now;

I may wished for things and situations to turn back to the past,

when i have to be accept the harsh side of reality…

I may become what i wish to become,

when i become more than what i am at this very moment…

You’ll Never Walk Alone, your shadow is always next to you,

KeanMing, All The Best!

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